Message from OSC(SW) Gilbert Rodriguez, Retired

My deepest condolences to your loved ones and those that loved you, of which I’m sure where many to count, whom you touched throughout your life. You left us way too soon but I guess the Lord needed you for other purposes. It was an honor to know you, serve with you, and be on the same commissioning crew of the best ship in the United States Navy; the USS Nicholson DD-982. May you have eternal fair winds and following seas.

A candle was lit by OSC(SW) Gilbert Rodriguez, Retired on December 7, 2018 3:50 PM

A candle was lit by Denise Desaulniers on April 7, 2018 11:54 PM

Message from Denise Desaulniers

I just found out about this! I am very saddened by Mike's passing! I will always remember that spectacular summer wehad together. I really loved him. RIP Mike.

A candle was lit by IC2 Sturgill on January 20, 2018 10:42 AM

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I was proud to serve with Mr Masley

Message from Jan Swindell, Biology Teacher, retired.

Mike was a beloved colleague and friend at Oxford. When I first arrived he spread those nurturing wings he had, and made room for me like he did for all. The heart that he put into everything he is hard to even describe; he gave like some people breathe. He was one of the most relevant people I ever knew. Sail on CMMDR. I know that you are with the Angels.

A candle was lit by the Van Flatern family on November 29, 2017 2:10 PM

Message from Diana (Szeredy) Couture

It was only today that I learned of Mike's passing. I would have definitely wanted to pay my respect to this wonderful man and offer my condolences in person. He was one of the nicest people I have ever known. The world has lost an incredible man.

Message from Pastor Wayne Woods

I was privileged and blessed to be a classmate of Mike's in the USNA Class of 1975, and a company mate of his the last 2 years we were midshipman. Even then, he was a good, kind soul, a blessing to know and serve with. Please know that my prayers will be with you at this time of loss, asking our Lord to envelop you in HIs love and grace and comfort. God Bless You!

Message from Tim Born LtCol USMC (Ret)

Dear Masley family:

I was one of Mike’s plebe year roommates and like every member of our Company I was shocked and saddened to hear of his passing. He was one of those rare forces of nature who knew how to have a good time and bring everybody else along with him. One couldn’t help but admire his unmatched zest for life, mischievous smile and the perpetual twinkle in his eyes.

It’s been years since I last saw Mike, yet like so many others I treasured every moment we shared together. His legacy of service, commitment and caring for fellow midshipmen, shipmates, NJROTC students, friends and family serve as a beacon to us all. Of all the wonderful traits that defined Mike (sense of character, honor, integrity,...) I believe it was his selfless service and spirit of giving that defined him most. No matter how busy Mike may have been, he ALWAYS made time to help others…and I was the beneficiary of his kindness more times than I can count.

Perhaps Winston Churchill described Mike best when he once said: “You make a living by what you get, you make a life by what you give.” My life, like so many others, was deeply enriched by knowing Mike. He made the world a better place, and I will miss him.

God Bless Mike … and the entire Masley family.

With My Deepest Condolences,

Tim Born
USNA ‘75

Message from Kirk Wessel, Capt. USNR (Ret)

I was devastated to hear of Mike's passing. I was in his company at USNA and he was a dear friend. I'll always remember him as kind-hearted, generous, spirited, and super-smart. I have some wonderful memories of time spent with Mike -- from the practical jokes we would play on each other, to taking care of his beloved 240Z (or was it a 260?), to getting assistance from him on sticky academic problems. Mike was the "go-to" guy in the company for a good hot-dog and a respite from the pace of Academy life. I am sad that we didn't stay in touch, but life and the Navy have ways of keeping us busy beyond our means. You were lucky, as was I, to have him in your life. My deepest condolences -- Weasel

Message from Bonnie Jeanne McGann

Dear Friends and Family of Michael,
I most recently spoke with Michael in April 2017, when we sat next to each other at the wedding reception an dalso the rehearsal dinner for my Cousin, Rick Easton's son, Trey Easton and his bride, Kate Blamer (now Easton) in Warrenton, Virginia. Before that, Rick reminded me, that I had met Michael at Rick and Kaye's wedding in Florida, in November 1981.
My deepest sympathy to all. Love and prayers, CDR Bonnie (Easton) McGann, JAGC, USN (Ret.)

Message from Marc W. Joseh, USNA Class of 1975

I met Mike very early during Plebe Summer 1971 at the Naval Academy. Adjusting from civilian life to that of a Plebe is a time of great confusion and uncertainty. What always shines through in those times are those who show uncommon kindness, warmth and friendship. Mike was that kind of beacon then and all four years that we were together at the Academy. I never saw him without a least the hint of a smile and never heard any greeting from him that did not evoke his kind and warm spirit. God speed, Mike Masley.

A candle was lit by Crazy Harry Selsor '75, CDR (USNR) Retired, on November 13, 2017 6:46 PM

Message from Harry Selsor

Fair winds and following seas my friend. Bravo Zulu...well done. My sincere condolences to the family. Your classmate, Crazy Harry'75

Message from The Coonan's

Mike you were a frequent topic of discussion in our household and the impact you made on everyone you touched either personally or with words. The "GOAT" has added a new face and Commander's name will always be synonymous with such!!

A candle was lit by Daniel, Audrey, Taylor and Peyton Coonan on November 13, 2017 11:52 AM

A candle was lit by The Hashey Family on November 13, 2017 11:10 AM

Message from Douglas Murdock

Thank you Sir for all you have done. You were a source of inspiration and encouragement to many. You helped my daughter and countless other young people gain the confidence and insight that is needed in young people to obtain their dreams. You will be missed by all who were fortunate enough to have you in their lives.

A candle was lit by Noelle Bourbeau (Class of 2019 and 2 year NJROTC cadet) on November 12, 2017 10:20 PM

Message from John R. St. Germain, NJROTC Class of 2015

Today the world lost one of the greatest teachers it has ever had. Commander Masley taught over 20 different graduating classes during his time as our beloved NJROTC instructor. But to those of us who knew him, he was so much more than that. He was a mentor, a father figure, and a great friend. He taught me what it was to be a leader, and what kind of man I wanted to be. He embodied the spirit of what we all strive to be, a man who has no regrets, a man who passed on doing the things he loved most in life, trying to make all of us better people. It was the highest honor and greatest privilege to be the alumni and friend who walked him out of the NJROTC spaces for the last time that he would be the Senior Naval Science Instructor of the Oxford NJROTC Unit. Commander Masley always did what he believed was right, and did it his way. With Fair Seas and Following Winds, may you rest in peace, the greatest man I have ever known.

Message from Remone Grooms & Family

What a leader. What a life. Our deepest sympathy and condolences to the family.

A candle was lit by Paul & Linda Kubik on November 12, 2017 1:36 PM

A candle was lit by Trey Easton on November 12, 2017 11:32 AM

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Commander Mike Masley was a dear friend of my father throughout their naval careers. Their friendship, beginning while both were stationed aboard the USS Nicholson, spanned decades and duty stations and through peace and conflict. I myself was born in September of 1988 and while, to my father, Commander Masley was "Mike", to me, he was "Uncle Taz", and my Godfather. To this very day I haven't the faintest idea as to why I called him Uncle Taz, but my first memories of him revolve around Christmas in Newport, Rhode Island, where Uncle Taz would let me hang some stellar Star Trek Christmas ornaments and would make my parents as welcome in his home as family. I was honored to host my Godfather at my wedding in April of this year, and I am so saddened that my wife and I will not be able to share all of the blessings and good news of our lives with Uncle Taz. I know that Uncle Taz was strong in faith and I know that he is with our Heavenly Father, but grief at his absence remains. It is a privilege to share these few memories with his family and all those who loved him; the honor with which Commander Masley lived will be yours to treasure forever. I will remember Uncle Taz as a man who served well, who was a faithful friend to my father, and as one of the very first good men I knew. It was a pleasure and an honor to say that I knew him, and I'm grateful for his life and for the times we shared. For him, I pray for joy and everlasting life in the sight of our Father, and for his family, I pray for peace and comfort in the midst of their distress. I hope for his memory to be shared with happiness and frequency, and I put my faith in the Lord to bring rest and glory to a man we all respected, and who only one of us called Uncle Taz.

A candle was lit by Paula Masley-Moses and family on November 12, 2017 11:08 AM

Message from Paula Masley-Moses, David Moses, and Marci Masley

Dear Joel, Julie, John and Elaine and family,
So very sorry and saddened to hear of Mike’s passing.
He was always a bigger than life presence at family gatherings. His bear hugs were the absolute best.
As an impressionable teenager, we often sent pen pal letters to one another when he was away at sea. How cool was it to have a cousin in the Navy. One letter in particular, contained the whole typed lyrics of the song “Stairway to Heaven” by Led Zeppelin and introduced me to the song. Ever since then it’s been one of my favorite songs.
My extended family and I send our condolences, love and prayers.
May Mike’s journey and stairway to heaven be accompanied by angels.

A candle was lit by Jennifer Derie, Pat and Dave Derie on November 12, 2017 10:51 AM

A candle was lit by Donna Healy on November 11, 2017 6:29 PM

Message from Marlene LaFlamme Carosi

Mike was my classmate at TMHS. I remember him as a genuinely nice young man. Rest in peace and God Bless You, Mike.

Marlene

A candle was lit by Derek Caplette on November 11, 2017 3:56 PM

A candle was lit by Stacey / NJROTC Mother / Class of 2000 on November 11, 2017 11:36 AM

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Rest in Peace, CMDR. I'll always be thankful for your service, for your work and for your influence on the students of OHS, both in and out of NJROTC. You will be missed.

A candle was lit by Mike Settle - USS Nicholson (DD-982) Shipmate on November 11, 2017 10:08 AM

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Day is done, gone the sun,
From the lake, from the hills, from the sky;
All is well, safely rest, God is nigh.

You are relieved sir.
Rest in Peace.

A candle was lit by Mike Settle - USS Nicholson (DD-982) Shipmate on November 11, 2017 9:52 AM

A candle was lit by Rebecca Brown(Lavoie) on November 11, 2017 8:35 AM

A candle was lit by Brett Russell/Class of 2003 NJROTC DRILL TEAM on November 11, 2017 8:23 AM

A candle was lit by David and Jackie Spahl on November 10, 2017 11:35 PM

A candle was lit by Kimberly Kentta on November 10, 2017 11:24 PM

A candle was lit by The Vigeant Family on November 10, 2017 10:18 PM

A candle was lit by Albert Pete marcoux jr on November 10, 2017 8:44 PM

Message from Holly Martin

John, Elaine, Kristen and Evan,
We are so sorry to hear of your brother's and uncle's sudden passing. Our love and Prayers are with you and all your family.
Holly and Bill

A candle was lit by Ralph, Deborah & Andrew Campbell on November 10, 2017 7:23 PM

A candle was lit by Christopher Buffum on November 10, 2017 7:16 PM

Message from Danny DeLollis

I am terribly shocked and even more terribly saddened at the news of The Commander’s passing. Mike was my across the hall neighbor for the six years (2004-2010) at Oxford High School. Now in my thirteenth year of teaching (and forty second year in the workforce) I have never known anyone who even came even close to possessing Mike’s work ethic. As we all know, his dedication to his JROTC unit was second to none. For certain, the long days and tireless commitment to his country, his work and his students will be his beautiful legacy.

Words cannot express how grateful I am for the opportunity to have worked with Mike and moreover to become his friend. As a new colleague I learned so much about teaching (and about life) from The Commander. I am for sure a better teacher (and person) today because of Mike’s help and influence. If I had to list the most helpful, awesome, generous and inspirational people I have met in my lifetime Michael C. Masely Jr. is right at the very top of the list. And, oh could The Commander chase a bargain!! I will miss you my friend!!

Since my departure from Oxford High School I have kept in close contact with The Commander. Two summers ago at a get together for lunch with a few teacher friends Mike presented me with two beautiful, thoughtful gifts – football memorabilia. Even at my threatening him he refused to take one red cent from me. Know, Mike, that when I wear my Phillip Rivers game jersey I will forever wear it in your memory!!

To Mike’s family, please accept my deepest condolences on his passing. He was a dear friend who will truly be missed. And Commander, I very much look forward to our next lunch date.
With Love,
Danny DeLollis – Ayer, MA

A candle was lit by Tim Tremblay on November 10, 2017 3:20 PM

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A Tribute to Mike Masley
From his neighbor Tim Tremblay
November 8, 2017

My wife and I bought the house up the hill from Mike in June of 2010. We were warmly welcomed to the neighborhood by Mike very soon after we moved in.
He introduced himself as a retired Navy Commander, to which I replied; my younger brother is also a commander in the Navy as a chaplain.
He told me of his involvement in the Oxford High School R.O.T.C program and of his many trips with the students.
As time passed, we would occasionally chat in the yard. Mike would always offer me something to help out with the yard. He was a very generous man. Here are some of the things he gave us; 14 Rose of Sharron bushes imported from his property in Newport, RI. a gigantic blue tarp to cover my fire wood with. Wood pallets to stack my firewood on. Grass clippings from his yard to use as mulch in our garden. Last fall Mike told me he had bought a new snow blower and wanted to give me his used one. Which he did, but only after he had it tuned up and had the belts replaced on it.
His generosity and hospitality extended to my wife and newborn daughter as well. Each thanksgiving, Mike would give us a card. Thanking us for being good neighbors. At Christmastime, he would personally deliver to our home a card and some gifts which he had bought somewhere along his travels. To think that a neighbor would be that thoughtful almost blew my mind. We were not family, just next door neighbors.
When my daughter Hannah was born in 2014, I think Mike unofficially adopted her. He would get her gifts for Christmas. A teddy bear from the Vermont teddy bear company, a race track with cars that required double a batteries. When he realized they did not include batteries, he went to his house and immediately returned with about 10 eight packs of double a batteries!

This summer we obtained a wooden play scape for Hannah. Mike noticed it was a little mildewed. So, he gave us a mildewcide mixture in his pump sprayer to clean it with.
My family referred to him as Mr. Mike. We would notice as he diligently mowed his lawn and cared for his property. His lawn was quite a chore, with several steep inclines. He always kept it looking great though!
We would let each other know if we were going to be out of town for an extended time, so we could keep an eye on each other’s houses.
He told me of the time he caught some hoodlums using his property as a drop off point for drug running.
He was a very busy man, even into his 60’s. An inspiration of diligence, commitment and consideration for others.
I and my family will miss our neighbor of 7 years. Even though he was not home for very long at times, he made the neighborhood feel inviting with his kindness.
We extend our condolences to his family and wanted to share with you our perspective on Mike as an amazing neighbor!
May God Bless,
Tim Tremblay

Message from Roger L Buschmann

Rest in peace Shipmate.....USS Nicholson (DD 982)

A candle was lit by Roger Buschmann shipmate USS Nicholson (DD 982) on November 10, 2017 11:17 AM

Message from CDR John Tata, USNR, Ret.

Having the honor of presenting Navy League Awards the the Oxford HS NJROTC unit that Mike nurtured for almost 2 decades, I am saddened the hear of his passing. He was a true warrior and a dedicated leader. He will be missed by many who have worn the Blue and Gold.

A candle was lit by Colleen Krause on November 10, 2017 9:50 AM

Message from Sophine Lever Class of 1998

Sending my deepest sympathy and prayers to family. As a former ROTC Cadet and student inspired by a great man, he will be deeply missed. Rest In Peace

A candle was lit by Sophine Lever on November 10, 2017 9:22 AM

A candle was lit by Teri & Jeff Rawson on November 10, 2017 7:21 AM

A candle was lit by Leanesa on November 9, 2017 10:43 PM

A candle was lit by Dan Mitchell on November 9, 2017 10:36 PM

A candle was lit by Lyndsay Morello NJROTC Class of 2007 on November 9, 2017 10:06 PM

Message from Lyndsay Morello NJROTC Class of 2007

Commander Masley was a huge part of my life when I was in school. He was my mentor and a rock for me my whole senior year. He was like a second father and pushed me to my full potential and always told me to never let others get me down. Commander is the reason I pushed through my senior year and meant everything to me. My condolences to his family, may he rest in peace. He will be greatly missed.

A candle was lit by Joe and Elizabeth Leader on November 9, 2017 9:41 PM

Message from Darlene Kudzal

I went to Tourtellotte High with Michael...He was always caring and considerate of everyone. I was shocked to hear of his passing. My prayers to his family...

A candle was lit by Frank and Darlene Kudzal on November 9, 2017 8:56 PM

A candle was lit by Angela Bennett on November 9, 2017 8:47 PM

Message from Leslie Ann Chambers

I was so saddened to hear of Commander's passing today. I worked with him at Oxford High School during my 11 years their as a colleague and friend. He was a true inspiration to all that knew him. He gave tirelessly to the Oxford community and students and was so respected. Commander was a true gentleman, leader, and historian, and I will always be thankful for the many conversations that we shared in passing on the lower level of Oxford High School. He would always joke with me that Navy would beat Army every year when we spoke of the Army/Navy Football game every fall.

The students loved him for his passion, knowledge, and kindness and he will never be forgotten.

God Bless you Commander, rest easy

Ms. Leslie Ann Chambers
Former PE Teacher

Message from Andrea Knecht

My condolences to the family of Commander Masley. He will never be forgotten by the people he has come into contact with. From the cadets who he has instructed to the community which he is known, we have lost a great man and may that great man rest in peace.
Andrea Knecht NJROTC 1995-1999

A candle was lit by Andrea. Class of 1999 on November 9, 2017 7:23 PM

Message from Kevin chapin

Joel and John....I am so sorry to hear of Boat's passing...he was loved by all....wonderful memories of spending time with you all growing up. ....Boat showed us all how to live life...he will be missed!

A candle was lit by Randy and Maureen Bell on November 9, 2017 6:03 PM

A candle was lit by Michelle Knapp on November 9, 2017 5:33 PM

A candle was lit by Mary and Daniel Lavoie on November 9, 2017 4:47 PM

Message from CWO4(Ret) Ricky Bland (North High School, Worcester)

With great sadness, I offer my sincere, deepest sympathy and condolences to the family and friends of CDR Michael C. Masely. His unfiltered kindness and compassion spoke to the very core of support upon my acceptance as the Senior Naval Science Instructor at North High School in Worcester, MA. He will be missed. Fair well and following seas to a "shipmate" who lived life with so much passion. Ricky Bland

Message from Crystal and Mark Bridgeo

Our sincerest condolences to the Commander's family. Working with him
for so many years at OHS was an honor... he was a most devoted colleague
and a true gentleman. His memory will live on.

Message from Phil and Jan Cook

We are deeply saddened at the news of Mike's passing. Mike was a fine shipmate and wonderful friend on board the USS Nicholson DD-982 (There's none finer!).

Every Christmas for almost 40 years, we hang up the pine cone wreath that Mike made for for us and for other members of the crew.

You will be remembered Michael Masley! Godspeed!

A candle was lit by Susan Ahearn on November 9, 2017 2:02 PM

A candle was lit by Erin McNeil Silva class of '01 on November 9, 2017 1:48 PM

A candle was lit by Michael Guertin, NJROTC Class of 2015 on November 9, 2017 1:25 PM

Message from Michael Guertin, NJROTC Cadet, Class of 2015

Commander Masley, it was an honor and a privilege to be a part of the 22 year legacy that was your leadership in the Oxford NJROTC program. It was such an honor to be one of your last CO’s and much more an honor to be a friend. Commander, you were much more than just a teacher, you were a mentor, a leader, and a friend. Commander, you taught me so many life lessons that I would not have learned if I had not joined the NJROTC Program in the footsteps of my cousin, and would not be the man I am today. You taught me how to lead a group and how to be humble. I will never forget all of the fun memories we had staying at the school way past the normal after school hours, especially the one time we stayed past midnight preparing for AMI when I was CO. You taught me so much about life and for that I am forever grateful. Thank you, Sir.
With love,
Mike

A candle was lit by Yvette Green on November 9, 2017 11:32 AM

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so sorry of Michael's sudden passing. Condolences to his family.

Message from Jim Siekierski

It has been over 50 years that I have considered Mike to be a true friend. Growing up a few miles apart and attending High School together at Tourtellotte Memorial was 4 great years. To witness Mike being accepted to the Naval Academy was just as sweet for me and his friends as it was for his family. We knew he would go on to do great things. To serve and help this country and to help many others in away only he could. We still have a few High School Secrets which only the two of us kept for ever. Our lips were sealed. He will truly be missed by all. I'm sure I speak for my brothers when I offer our condolences to Joel and John who were also great friends to the Siekierski family. I'll see you sometime in the future "Boat" (our high school nickname for Mike because he was going to live his dream in the Navy). Your friend, Jim

Message from Southern New England Drill League

The Southern New England Drill League where Commander Masley served as the Treasurer for many years would like to convey our deepest sympathies to the family. Mike was a very admirable man and way too many qualities to list here, he will be greatly missed

Message from Pat Hokanson

Simply A Great Human that will be So Missed and be carried in so many hearts.

A candle was lit by Pat Hokanson on November 9, 2017 9:38 AM

A candle was lit by Justin O'Halloran on November 9, 2017 9:26 AM

Message from Susan Smith Briody

So terribly shocked by Michael’s untimely passing! Colleagues at Oxford High School, I taught art across the hall from him before our move to the new school 15 years ago. Michael was always at school, often late into the evening, and would check in on me and the yearbook staff, note our weary look and return with offerings of hot chocolate and snacks. When I was silkscreening my huge runs of Christmas prints, in addition to the hot chocolate and goodies, he gave me his favorite Christmas album, “Mannheim Steamroller Christmas.” So thoughtful and considerate, he placed it immediately into my CD player so that I could enjoy it without stopping my process so not to risk a clogged stencil with dried ink. I’ll never listen to Christmas music again without thinking of him and his kindness, thoughtfulness and over the top generosity.
I am so sorry for our loss of him. He was a great man, admired for his steadfast commitment and loyalty towards everything that mattered to him. He spoke so highly of all of you, his family, his pride and joy, above all else, including his careers with the Navy and teaching. And you know how much he loved his work!
My sincerest sympathy!

A candle was lit by Peggi Corsi on November 9, 2017 8:03 AM

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Joel, John and families - I am so sorry to hear about Mike. He is an amazing man and will never, ever be forgotten. I feel honored to have had him as my friend for over 40 years and he has always owned a large part of my heart. So many happy and wonderful memories that I will hold on to forever! Thinking of you all through this difficult time. He will truly be missed by so many.

Message from Mike

Mike catalano

We extend our deepest condolences to the Masley family and friends. The Holy Scriptures give us comfort and hope. Our lord, Jesus Christ said in John 5:28: "Do not be amazed at this for the hour is coming in which all those in the "memorial tombs" will hear his voice and come out." Knowing of a resurrection and being able to see our loved ones again in the near future can give us comfort and hope. You can read more words of consolation from The Bible . We sincerely hope that these words can soothe your hearts.
Sincerely, Mike Catalano

Message from Tim & Deb Lenihan

John and Family, so sorry for your loss. While I did not know your brother, Uncle the comments left by his former students and fellow sailors certainly paint a picture of a very gifted person who succeeded at living an impactful life. Not many achieve what has accomplished. May he rest in peace.

Message from Lyn Stevens

Dear Joel, Julie and family,
I am sorry to hear of the passing of Michael. May you have many happy memories to help you through this difficult time. He did great things with the Jr. ROTC in Oxford.
Sincerely,
Lyn Stevens

A candle was lit by Christine Dumphy on November 8, 2017 10:40 PM

A candle was lit by Jim and Cheri Dion on November 8, 2017 8:48 PM

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Mike did so much for the kids at school with the ROTC program. His memory will live on through everyone whose life he touched. RIP Commander

Message from Laura White

So sorry to hear about Commander Masley. He was an asset to the town of Oxford. My condolences to his family and friends.
-Laura

Message from LCDR Edward L. Stone, USN (RET)

Fair winds and following seas, shipmate. Mike and I were roommates in USS Robt. E. Peary (FF 1073) on the 76 Westpac. Know that my prayers are for the family that they will find peace at this time of sorrow.

A candle was lit by LCDR Edward L. Stone, USN (RET) on November 8, 2017 8:19 PM

A candle was lit by Kim Adams and Nicholas Packard on November 8, 2017 7:59 PM

Message from Nancy Chandler Hills

It was my privilege to have attended High School with Mike. I remember him as a true gentleman and loyal friend to many. I don't think I ever heard him say an unkind word nor did I hear anyone speak poorly of him. He will be missed by more people than he would ever have realized. Saddened by his loss, thoughts and prayers extended to all his family.

A candle was lit by Gillian Hicks on November 8, 2017 6:47 PM

A candle was lit by David Taylor, Shipmate USS Nicholson DD-982 on November 8, 2017 6:42 PM

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A candle was lit by Dan & Sandy Viel on November 8, 2017 6:34 PM

A candle was lit by Amy Dawson Prendiville on November 8, 2017 6:18 PM

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A candle was lit by Sue Shultz (Coderre) on November 8, 2017 6:02 PM

Message from Danielle Giard

I’m so shocked and heartbroken by the news of Commander’s passing. He was such a huge influence on every person he talked to. His passing is a great loss to his family, friends and students. He will be missed but never forgotten. Rest easy Sir.

A candle was lit by Alphonso and Carol Ann Esposito on November 8, 2017 5:56 PM

A candle was lit by Danielle Giard on November 8, 2017 5:53 PM

A candle was lit by Deb Semenyck on November 8, 2017 5:47 PM

Message from Oxford ma

CImmanuel was an eceptional man, teacher and mentor. He brought out the very best in his students. He always saw their potential and pushed them to reach their goals. Rest easy commander....

A candle was lit by Scot & Donna Wilson on November 8, 2017 5:43 PM

Message from Ed and Terry Ann Renaud

So Sorry for your loss, he was a wonderful man.

A candle was lit by The Morris Family on November 8, 2017 4:54 PM

A candle was lit by The Coonan Family....Don, Laura. Katie. and Megan... on November 8, 2017 4:52 PM

A candle was lit by David & Renee St Germain on November 8, 2017 4:49 PM

A candle was lit by Tammy (Curl) Hartland on November 8, 2017 4:44 PM

Message from Lida Roman

We lost a wonderful man, who's service to this country and our community was astounding.
The countless hours given to the kids in NJROTC in Oxford was a gift and blessing. I was fortunate enough to see this man in action. He pushed enough to have them aspire to be great.
He always seemed to make the unimaginable happen. He had connections every where! My deepest condolences to his family, from mine. In some of our hardest times he was routing us on, and that made a difference.
Godspeed, good sir,
Thank you for your incredible service!!
Lida Roman

A candle was lit by The Moineau Family on November 8, 2017 4:17 PM

Message from The Moineau Family

You were a true inspiration for so many Commander. Thank you for all you did for my daughter Catherine and for all the students you mentored throughout your career. You gave everything you had and it showed. You will be greatly missed and never replaced.

A candle was lit by Denise Aucoin, Oxford Public Schools on November 8, 2017 4:06 PM

A candle was lit by Lida Roman on November 8, 2017 4:00 PM

Message from Jacob Goyette, NJROTC Cadet, Class of 2015

Determined, hard-working, kind, knowledgeable, selfless.

These are just a few words that can be used to describe CDR. Michael C. Malsley, Jr. USN. Ret.

From the moment I became apart of the NJROTC Unit my freshman year, I knew I was joining not only a highly decorated organization run by a masterful leader, but I was joining a family. Everyone of Commanders cadets where his family; his sons and daughters. He helped shape who I am today. I will miss all the late nights setting up for AMI and the stories he would tell. I will miss all the wonderful conferences and camps and events he helped organize:bring us to, to educate us and give us a broader world view. I will miss his laugh, his Masley-isms, his wit and charm. I wish I could have talked to you one last time, Sir. Rest In Peace Commander.

A candle was lit by Colin Murphy NJROTC Class of 2020 on November 8, 2017 3:54 PM

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Commander Masley was the reason I joined the unit in the first place and has helped me to become a better leader. When I first met him, I was scared of him. I didn't want to join because I thought he would give me bad grades and scare me out of it. Turns out that he convinced me to go for it and participate in the activities. He has shown me how to snap properly, keep bearing, to do what is right, and most of all, have fun. Before him, I was never sure of myself, but afterwards, he gave me confidence and the strength to go forwards. Even when he was at his worst, he never gave up on me, on all of the cadets. Because of him, I want to keep going and strive for more than just my best. I want to be a life leader, not just in the unit. Thanks to you, Commander, I now finally understand the true meaning of a family. You will be greatly missed from all of us, past and present cadets, and I give all of my condolences to your family. I love you, Commander...I just wish I had the strength and time to tell you that in person. You have changed my life, forever, and will always be remembered as not just a teacher, but a coach, mentor, and friend. Thank you...for everything.

A candle was lit by Jacob Goyette, NJROTC Cadet, Class of 2015 on November 8, 2017 3:51 PM

A candle was lit by Vin and Pam Provencher on November 8, 2017 3:41 PM

A candle was lit by Colin Murphy on November 8, 2017 3:36 PM

A candle was lit by Paula, Rich, Jaimie & Jenna Parker on November 8, 2017 2:45 PM

A candle was lit by Kelsey Gardner on November 8, 2017 2:39 PM

A candle was lit by The Murphy family on November 8, 2017 2:39 PM

A candle was lit by Tom Carter, Commander, USN, retired, Steelville, MO on November 8, 2017 2:16 PM

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Sad to hear of Mike's death. I hope and pray he didn't suffer. Days on Bob E. were always fun ... sharing a room with him as young Ensigns was a great experience. Mike did lots of good stuff on USS Robert E. Peary serving as 1st Lieutnant, Navigator and Welfare & Recreation officer. Well like by all his men and his officers in the wardroom. God Bless Mike Masley .... nothing more proud than serving in the US Navy in the 20th century ... here's to good times Mike (as I lift a glass of cold beer) ... thanks for all the time buddy.

A candle was lit by Julie Gunderman on November 8, 2017 2:14 PM

A candle was lit by Tom Carter, shipmate from USS Robert E. Peary (FF 1073) on November 8, 2017 1:29 PM

A candle was lit by Christine Weagle on November 8, 2017 1:18 PM

A candle was lit by Markos Candelaria on November 8, 2017 12:57 PM

Message from KeithGiard

Commander was a dedicated man to the unit He did so much for the cadets and the town of oxford He is truly one of a kind thank you for all you did for my daughter Dee

A candle was lit by Keith Giard on November 8, 2017 12:23 PM

Message from North Brookfield

I remember Ensign Masley on my first ship. USS Robert E Peary FF 1073.
He was always easy going. Very helpful. Fair Winds and Following Seas Shipmate.

A candle was lit by Santos Family on November 8, 2017 10:52 AM

A candle was lit by Kristina Kimball Lambert on November 8, 2017 10:12 AM

A candle was lit by Sara Buffum (Shaw) on November 8, 2017 10:10 AM

Message from Amanda Levie, NJROTC Class of 1997

My deepest sympathy and condolences to the family. Commander Masley was a truly gifted person, who loved the NJROTC unit and all its cadets, past and present, like his own children. The lessons he taught us, both in the classroom and out in the real world, helped shape us all into the remarkable people we are today. Rest in Peace good sir.....you will be missed more than you will ever know

A candle was lit by Amanda Levie, NJROTC Class of 1997 on November 8, 2017 9:59 AM

A candle was lit by Thomas Butler on November 8, 2017 8:09 AM

Message from Bobbie Chase

I am so sorry and stunned to learn of his death. (A former Oxford HS student had posted on Facebook.). Mike was a great person, respected and loved by his students and fellow teachers; I taught with him at OHS. His untimely death is a loss.

A candle was lit by Justin Bennett on November 7, 2017 10:45 PM