Webster- Pamela M. (Columbare) Wilhelm age 45 died Friday March 6, 2015 at her home.  She leaves her companion  of 19 yrs., Scott Stinchfield of Webster.  She also leaves a son Daniel Wilhelm of Webster. She also had a son that predeceased her, Joseph Wilhelm of Derry, NH.  She also leaves 3 daughters; Jessica Santucci of Cranston, RI, Anna Wilhelm of Webster and Julia Stinchfield of Webster, 2 brothers David Columbare of Spencer and Richard Columbare of Chicago, IL, 3 sisters; Lisa Holst of Barre, Alison Daubney of Douglas and Dorothy Gendron of Smithfield, RI and 4 grandchildren.  She also leaves her mother and father Richard and Dorothy (Quirk) Columbare of Rotonda West, Fl.  She was born in Milford, MA and lived here for the past 25 years.  A celebration of life will be held Fri., March 13, 2015 from 5-6 PM with a service at 5:45 PM.  The Shaw-Majercik Funeral Home, 48 School St., Webster has been entrusted with her arrangements.  A guest book is available to post a condolence or a memory at www.shaw-majercik.com