A candle was lit by hs friend on January 27, 2024 10:22 PM

Message from Jaminson sterling tod

I miss you.
Love truely

A candle was lit by Jules on October 9, 2019 11:03 AM

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Ive been at a loss for words, but as 3 years rolls around, the memories flood back in. Every time.i drive over the bridge they found your bike under, i cry. I went to ellis the other day and saw the bench they made for you, my heart hurt so bad. I miss you immensely tj. I wish so bad things were different. You made highschool enjoyable for me. Thank you for everything you did, all the times you were there for me. All the times you were my shoulder to cry on. I hope you're rocking out up there. Until we meet again 😭💜

A candle was lit by Anonymous on October 9, 2019 10:59 AM

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Message from brooklynn

I lovw you so much and i miss you to no extent. Im so sorey you had to leave us the way you did. I will never be at peace with this. My sweet best pal. Forever in my heart

A candle was lit by brookie cookie on December 1, 2017 3:24 PM

A candle was lit by Tyler dunlop on October 4, 2017 3:47 PM

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He was a good kid and a good friend. Miss you Bud. I'm Sorry im so late. Thank you for everything TJ, and Mrs. Allen.
- Tyler and GF

A candle was lit by Tyler Dunlop on October 4, 2017 3:40 PM

A candle was lit by Sherrie on May 25, 2017 7:43 PM

Message from Sherrie

I just wanted to say I'm so sorry! And that we haven't forgot about TJ. Rest In Peace

A candle was lit by Ana soto on February 24, 2017 9:00 AM

Message from Gramma and Grampa Ray

We will miss our loving, quiet, soft-spoken grandson TJ playing his quitar and banjo for us .. we will forever love and miss our Grandson. Todd and Chrisy, your TJ was a wonderful, kind boy. Please stay strong and we love you both so much.

A candle was lit by Jessica & Family on February 1, 2017 11:12 AM

A candle was lit by RIP TJ. May you rest in peace! Ride on in Heaven 💙💙 on January 30, 2017 1:25 AM

A candle was lit by Joe and Ann-Marie Zambo on January 29, 2017 10:04 AM

A candle was lit by Laura on January 29, 2017 9:31 AM

A candle was lit by Laura on January 29, 2017 9:10 AM

A candle was lit by The Fravala Family on January 27, 2017 10:51 AM

A candle was lit by Rise" & Herb Cooke on January 27, 2017 10:50 AM

A candle was lit by Kate and Dan Weidele on January 26, 2017 9:51 PM

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Message from Karen CROKE

May he rest in peace, my condolences to the family

A candle was lit by Karen CROKE on January 26, 2017 5:47 PM

A candle was lit by Carol on January 26, 2017 5:05 PM

A candle was lit by The Bakers on January 26, 2017 4:00 PM

A candle was lit by Jessie deepest condolences on January 26, 2017 3:34 PM

Message from JohnydII

My heart goes out to you Chris and Todd and your family at this difficult time.

A candle was lit by Jodi & Kyle Hayes on January 26, 2017 10:32 AM

A candle was lit by Donna on January 26, 2017 9:06 AM

Message from Donna and Kevin

Todd and Chris: you know my thoughts and prayers are with you at all times; still cannot believe that this is true; find strength in one another.

A candle was lit by A community member. on January 26, 2017 7:41 AM

A candle was lit by marcella freidenfelds. god bless rip. on January 26, 2017 7:17 AM

A candle was lit by Phyllis on January 26, 2017 6:54 AM

A candle was lit by Brittany on January 25, 2017 11:18 PM

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Message from Kailey Hamel

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Message from Kristen Phaneuf

I'm so sorry for this incredible loss. Tj made this world a better place just by being in it. Not a day goes by that I don't think of him, and everyone in his family. ❤️

A candle was lit by Kristen Phaneuf. ❤️ on January 25, 2017 8:15 PM

A candle was lit by The Sherman Family on January 25, 2017 7:30 PM

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A candle was lit by Maryann & Robert Schuller on January 25, 2017 6:28 PM

Message from Dean & Cheryl

Todd & Chris
Our prayers continue for you and TJ. May your beautiful boy be forever close to you.
Dean & Cheryl Geremia

A candle was lit by Norell family on January 25, 2017 5:54 PM

A candle was lit by Beth Frink on January 25, 2017 5:25 PM

Message from Tracy Ann Sullivan

My deep condolences to the family and friends for their loss of T.J. Allen. I could only imagine the magnitude the pain and sorrow you, his family and those, close to T. J. must endure. May the Lord watch over you all and prayers for strength. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your beautiful son, T.J, Rock the heavens above and the angels be you. Prayers to you, to a beautiful young soul up in heaven. R.I.P. Todd T.J. Allen
Tracy Sullivan

A candle was lit by Tracy Sullivan on January 25, 2017 4:48 PM

A candle was lit by Sue Munro on January 25, 2017 4:42 PM

A candle was lit by The Billings family god bless on January 25, 2017 4:18 PM

A candle was lit by Cathy on January 25, 2017 4:17 PM

Message from Cathy

I am so sorry for your loss god bless your family may god guide you all through this tragedy

Message from Katherine Edwards

May peace be with you as you mourn the loss of your son and brother, TJ. Mere words are inadequate, but know that many people are thinking of you during this difficult time.

A candle was lit by Katherine Edwards on January 25, 2017 3:36 PM

A candle was lit by Lauren Heidelberger on January 25, 2017 2:39 PM

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A candle was lit by The Finley Family on January 25, 2017 1:59 PM

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A candle was lit by Patty Boyd carol Howard Coz in so sorry for the loss of your on January 25, 2017 1:31 PM

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A candle was lit by Kimberly Ann Pokropowicz on January 25, 2017 12:37 PM

A candle was lit by Tayler on January 25, 2017 11:44 AM

A candle was lit by Cory Johnson RIP Todd on January 25, 2017 11:06 AM

Message from Brookie cookie

if i could hear you call me that one more time... im sure everyones thinking that.. Like Mom or Dad or Sis.. so on so forth. we miss and love you so much. everyday. <3

A candle was lit by "Brookie Cookie" on January 25, 2017 10:31 AM

Message from Rosen family

Our hearts go out to all of TJ's family and friends. We are so sorry for your loss. Those words seem so small.. may he Rest In Peace.

A candle was lit by Joann lawless on January 25, 2017 9:42 AM

A candle was lit by A box of rain will ease the pain, & love will see u thru GD on January 25, 2017 8:53 AM

A candle was lit by Megan Hull on January 25, 2017 8:52 AM

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Message from Kim D.

I did not know TJ or his family but I lost my son on the same day. Sending my sincere condolences. So many of us were praying for TJs safe return. God bless this family.

A candle was lit by Kim D. on January 25, 2017 8:15 AM

A candle was lit by The Adams Family on January 25, 2017 8:03 AM

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A candle was lit by Nancy, Jared and Derek Pocock on January 25, 2017 7:52 AM

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Message from Sue jones

So sorry for ur loss.sending u hugs.R.I.P. TJ

A candle was lit by Sue and Jeff jones on January 25, 2017 6:05 AM

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Message from So Sorry ,To Young,Gone To Soon,

Tina Pedini 😥😥😥U will be missed so much..

A candle was lit by Tina Pedini 😥 on January 25, 2017 5:11 AM

Message from Diane Bratti

Sorry for your loss may you find peace in your heart i am sending prayers for you and your family and peace and love

A candle was lit by Diane Bratti and AnnMarie and Cheyenne her two daughters on January 25, 2017 4:56 AM

Message from Donna Simmons

My heart goes out to you Todd,Christina and Dee. May you all find peace in this most difficult time. I know being your child that he was a wonderful young man.

A candle was lit by Kelly LaRose on January 25, 2017 12:52 AM

A candle was lit by Bryan ,Marie, and Darrell anger on January 25, 2017 12:32 AM

Message from Marie anger

Todd and Chris. There are no words to express my sympathy. My heart hurts for you. TJ will fly with the angels. He will always be loved and certainly never forgotten.

A candle was lit by Lisa & Jay Burgess & Family on January 25, 2017 12:24 AM

A candle was lit by The Carchidi family on January 25, 2017 12:08 AM

A candle was lit by The Carchidi family on January 25, 2017 12:06 AM

A candle was lit by Holli on January 24, 2017 11:53 PM

A candle was lit by The Anthony/Riley Family on January 24, 2017 11:50 PM

Message from Jean Crawford

There are no words that can comfort this family, but Todd wouldn't want them to be sad...I'm sure he is with you everyday in some way...some little tickle or itch, a small breeze when no window is open, or a little thought that pops into your head...I didn't know TJ or his family, but from day 1 this young man became my "son" and I prayed every night that he came home safe and woke every morning hoping for good news...My heart aches for them as the outcome was not what we all hoped for...My condolences to TJ's family and friends...May he be at peace and may his family find some peace in the little signs TJ gives them...RIP TJ...you will be missed by many who didn't even know you...

Message from Cassandra denham

R.i.p.tj , my sincere condolences to the family and friends!

A candle was lit by Cassandra denham on January 24, 2017 11:24 PM

A candle was lit by Jean Crawford on January 24, 2017 11:22 PM

A candle was lit by A. Vasbinder on January 24, 2017 11:15 PM

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A candle was lit by Kim on January 24, 2017 10:44 PM

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Message from Monique k

Diana, I'm so very sorry for your loss. prayers are with you and your loved ones.

A candle was lit by Monique k on January 24, 2017 10:36 PM

A candle was lit by Missi on January 24, 2017 10:34 PM

Message from Butler Family

Our thoughts and prayers are with you as you are faced with the greatest challenge a parent may have to endure. May God comfort his entire family, friends, loved ones and community members during this time and in the future.

A candle was lit by Pease Family on January 24, 2017 10:11 PM

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Message from Cidalia Sousa

My deepest sympathy to the family .

A candle was lit by Cidalia Sousa on January 24, 2017 9:58 PM

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Message from Jenn

I didn't know TJ but he reminds me of so many people I hold near and dear to my heart. I truly am saddened for you all and I hope you find a way to heal through this. Rest easy Todd!

A candle was lit by Jenn, Steve and Lilah on January 24, 2017 9:48 PM

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A candle was lit by Megan and Jessica Daniels-Ormerod family on January 24, 2017 9:45 PM

Message from Megan Wells

My condolences to you all. TJ'S passing has touched my heart and your family will forever be in my thoughts and prayers.

A candle was lit by A veloce on January 24, 2017 9:36 PM

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Message from Melissa

I'm very sorry for the loss of your sweet son. You are all in my thoughts.

A candle was lit by Melissa on January 24, 2017 9:09 PM

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A candle was lit by Denise on January 24, 2017 9:07 PM

Message from Denise

My deepest condolences to the whole family. My you find peace knowing he is home.

A candle was lit by Susan Gregoire, Plainfield, Ct on January 24, 2017 9:05 PM

Message from Betty Heath

My most sincere sympathy to your family

A candle was lit by Tiffany on January 24, 2017 9:00 PM

A candle was lit by Dale Lehoux of Florence, Arizona on January 24, 2017 8:52 PM

A candle was lit by Linda on January 24, 2017 8:51 PM

Message from Linda

My condolences to the family. I did not know TJ, but he reminded me of my own son in so many ways. I could tell just by looking at his photos and people sharing stories, that he was truly a kind, loving person with a good heart. No words are ever adequate in this situation, but I hope somehow, you are able to find some peace and comfort in this time of heartache. You are all in my prayers.

A candle was lit by Vargas Family on January 24, 2017 8:46 PM

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Message from Christine

I am so sorry for your loss 💔

A candle was lit by Cheryl,Steven & kids (Roy) on January 24, 2017 8:30 PM

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Message from Plainfield, ct

R.I.P. Todd.J.Allen. Fly with the Angels.

A candle was lit by Stacy V. on January 24, 2017 8:27 PM

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Message from monique

sending the deepest sympathy to your family . Todd seemed like a wonderful person, a caring and loving person i did not know him but from the loving stories i have read he sounds like a wonderful caring and loving person may peace be with you and your family

A candle was lit by monique on January 24, 2017 8:02 PM

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Message from Sthy Nurmi

TJ was a fine young man who was gentle, kind and caring. There was always a smile on his face and he was always ready to help when needed. My heart aches for you Chris, Todd and especially you Dee. His love will live on in your hearts and nothing or no one can take that away from you.

A candle was lit by Jessica Berke on January 24, 2017 6:42 PM

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A candle was lit by Letitia on January 24, 2017 12:08 AM

Message from Shaw-Majercik Funeral Home

The staff of the Shaw-Majercik Funeral Home extends our sympathy to Todd's (TJ's) family and friends. We are honored to have been entrusted with his final arrangements.

A candle was lit by Shaw-Majercik Funeral Home on January 23, 2017 12:59 PM